1. Mind over matter
I enjoy the company of people who are smart, well-read, worldly and eloquent. I like people who can teach me something. People who can converse easily and allow discussions to flow comfortably. I love quick wit. Nothing breaks my heart like realizing the person I’m talking to doesn’t actually get my jokes or references I might make.. :-/ Or doesn’t think The Office or Modern Family is funny. I want to be able to talk frequently and at length with whoever I’m with. I want to enjoy their company and be able to laugh. Be smart, be funny :-)
2. B-)
I would say ‘be attractive’ but I think I actually mean something else: I need to be attracted to you. Doesn’t mean the whole world has to find you classically handsome, I just need to e attracted to you. Be clean, care about your appearance. I’m not huge on muscles and six-packs but what do I look like turning those down? lol. I am big on height… because I’m only 5’2” :/ It’s a mixture of my own vanity and the knowledge that my kids will hate me if I don’t find a tall man to sire them. So… you see, it’s not my fault. Be charming, be manly… facial hair is always a plus :-) Dressing like you have some sense is a win.
3. Give to me
Nope, not money. Your time, your attention, your consideration. Make it obvious that I matter. Treat me the same in public as in private. The little things count. Be loyal. Trust me. Go out of your way for me :) Be interested.
4. Take from me
Confide in me. Use me as your eyes and ears. Ask my opinion. Allow me to do you favors. Consider me your friend. Know that I have your back.
5. Be Ambitious
As much as I love laid-back people, being around a go-getter can be so inspiring. I want to be motivated to be a better person, to improve upon myself, work on my flaws, achieve my goals. Be about your business :-)
